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一封給所有害怕自己嫁不出的女人的信

「咦?你仲未結婚吖?」 如何讓一個,每個人都覺得「又肥又矮又醜樣」的女性, 在30天內找到懂得自己的「好男人」,然後拉埋天窗? 讓我們的「緣份秘密解讀」網上工作坊, 教你如何找到了解並喜歡與你相處的Mr. Right, 並大聲跟姊妹說:「我結婚啦!」 Hi, 想像一下,每年農曆新年可能是你最不想面對人的日子。 為什麼?因為總有一些親戚,甚至父母,在這段時間十分關心你的感情生活。說白了就是:你怎麼還是單身? 他們的好意你很清楚,只是你心裡可能有點不滿:我單身又如何? 你的朋友也無形中替你著急。她們會關心你,找你傾談。她們會有意無意之間介紹一些男性給你認識,讓你早點跟她們一樣,有人分享你的感情和生活。 隨着年紀漸長,或許你再不會,也不敢再去做少女時的夢想:我要與最優秀的男性,穿最美麗的婚紗,風風光光嫁出去。 或者你會覺得,現在生活很好,一個人很寫意,很享受獨自一個人自由自在的生活。 但是,如果這只是為了讓你逃避追求屬於自己的愛情,那我想接下來的故事可能會讓你有新的想法。 <<Story About X>> 如你所見,有自己的追求並沒有錯。大部份時間,只需一個念頭,眼下的所謂「現實」其實很容易改變。 要知道,沒有人可改變你的想法,除了你自己之外。 而且,這通常很簡單。 為什麼人家有男朋友,你沒有? 這不是你的錯。 我們稍後告訴你這個問題的答案,但在此之前,你有否想過為什麼會出現這個問題? 從小時候你就被教導:「只要做一個好女孩,乖女孩,就會有好男仔與你結婚」。 可是大部份的女孩子都這句話耽誤了幾十年。她們每天為了做一個「好女孩」而努力,卻得不到相應的結果。 於是我們再努力,再成為更好的女性,去學煮飯,學插花,學不同的語言。有些成功了,可是更多的失敗了。 那我們會捫心自問:「我是不是不夠好呢?既然無論如何我都不夠好,那就放棄吧!我不想再做好女孩了。」 而有趣的地方是,這些「放棄了」的女孩子,成功地找到自己的心上人。然後,有更多的女孩子都相信:「不要成為好女孩,那沒有用」這件事。而這句說話通常被翻譯成更直接的句字: 順其自然,做自己最好 可是,這只答對了一部份。有一些最重要的部分遺漏了。 而且。。。從沒有人正式告訴過你遺失的部份是什麼,更重要的是:要怎...

How To Respect By Not Respecting

Attention!   Don't Read This If You Are Easily Affected By People Who Understand Nothing About Your Culture And Your Life Average Person Often Makes Decision Based On Other People's Opinion, Even If They Know That That Decision Is Bad, Nonsense And A Waste Of Time.  Are You Next? Dear Reader I truly understand your situation.  When it comes to making a decision, no matter it is critical like wedding, or small thing like what and where to eat dinner, you are often "respect" other people's opinion. We all respect people, and their opinions.  Sometime if that is useful and if it indeed helps to either solve the problem or make the situation better, you are going to listen and do it. However, there are situations where showing your comity and solely listen, and follow what they say, is not suitable. LIke having a roasted pig as an opening ceremony and celebration event. Is Showing Respect Crucial? Let me tell you a story about my friend, John. John...

You just need 1 Shed plan to succeed

You Just Need 1 Shed Plan To Succeed And We are giving you 12,000 Shed Plans Dear, Have you ever been frustrating with this:  I need a wood shed that totally suits my needs. I just want a simple, yet functional, and easy to use shed that can store my things. And after you go out trying to look for that thing, you find that it is very difficult to find that right "shed". It is expensive, ugly and didn't meet my needs. I understand what you think. As you know by heart, there is hardly any "dream" shed for you to "discover".  Yes I agree that, if you spend enough time to look for that, you will eventually find out.  However, how long does it take for that? Your time is valuable, and apparently it is not a good investment of your time to just go out and look for the "perfect" shed. Just don't worth it. So instead of find out there your dream shed, why not building one for your own. "Oh no it...